And from her Boat she took a basket
Filled with Love and Hope
and Dreams spilled from her fingers
Spreading out in all Directions
Lojo

Memories of Bonnie

A Beautiful Young Woman with exceptional artistic talent.
She has the gentle spirit of the Dragon Fly,
A welcoming smile and Love that engulfs you.
To Love in the Hearts we leave behind is not to die.
You are in my Heart and I see your gentle reminder often.
Sherry Katzenberger

I count myself lucky to have been given the honor of being in Steve and Bonnies wedding and to having her as apart of our family. She and Steve were meant to be together and it it saddens me that it was such a short time. Did I really know her, not as well as I had hoped to.Until our ways cross in the paths of the dead, where I hope she will tell me her tales so I might know her better.
Mike Katzenberger

My memories of Bonnie are more varied in some ways. She was my sister-in-law. I would remove the in-law part and consider her a gift from God as a sister by choice in life. I only had the privilege of her beauty, love and spirit for 3 years, but it will remain with me for my lifetime. I look for ward to feeling her spirit with us all for the rest of my life, and look forward to seeing her again when it is my turn to go where she is now. I love you Bonnie - we love you Bonnie - From our whole family.
Cheryl Spade

 

 

Memories of Bonnie, or Boo as several of us called her... too numerous to mention. How do you sum up a person? Sister, Playmate, Queen of Switzerland (between Kristin and I at times), Joker, Sassy Girl...

Famous quotes: "No Ding!",
Dayna: "Hey Boo, Why do we like these again?
Bonnie:" It's the coating"
Dayna: "Juice?"
Bonnie "yes" (cheesy accent ala some southern island climate}
Private jokes, sorry, but these are a few of oodles of memories...

Bonnie came into my life so quietly. One day I turned around and she was just there. And I was like, "Hey... where the hell have you been? Bout' damn time you freakin' got here!" Kristin and I opened up our home and lives to her and she in turn helped us all grow, as well as opened up herself.

She always felt like she was looking for a place to belong. I was so happy she found that belonging with all of us. I wish there was more of her art laying around. She was so fantastic at it ... provided one could get her off her ass to do it!

She loved to do stage combat. She loved The Bobs. She loved Braveheart. She loved horses. She had a love of all things Australian, koalas not withstanding. I miss her giggle. I miss her teasing my cats. I miss our driving around town. I miss late night chats. I miss her.

I know I could have never sang as I did the day of her memorial service had she not showed up at the cemetery to calm Stephen down. She arrived with as a SWARM of dragonflies that danced above our heads as we laughed, danced, and hugged each other, our faces to the sun with Stephen crying "thank you... oh thank you." I knew then she was ok and we could all go on with our lives with her keeping an eye on us. She shows up in my dreams and visits often.

As with anyone, we all have foibles and faults. Bonnie was no different. She would be the first to say "no" to any mantle of sainthood. But if she taught me anything, it was that nothing is to be taken for granted. I thank her for the gift of her life she shared with me and so many others. I was so happy that she found such love with Stephen.

Cherokee Morning Song
We n' de ya ho, We n' de ya ho,
We n' de ya, We n' de ya Ho ho ho ho,
He ya ho, He ya ho, Ya ya ya

Translation: I am of the Great Spirit, It is so.
Dayna Jean Wolter

I can not really tell you the first time I met Bonnie, I have always felt she was part of my life. She had a light that would make one feel at ease, a laughter and wit that was contagious, and a smile that warmed the heart. Now that she is no longer with us, I still hear her laughter and wit whispered in the breeze that graces my ear, I see her radiance as a dragon fly plays in the sunshine, I feel her presence and warmth with everyone who thinks and/or speaks of her. Amazing woman, strong, gentle, funny. The day after she was sent off by her loved ones, I had a dream. I was at festival where that chess match was held last year. I knew I was waiting for someone, but was not sure who. As I turned, the thick crowd seperated before me to reveal Bonnie heading towards me in her wedding gown. Her smile, her radiance, her whole being of love. She embraced me and said "I am in a great place now....you can't miss me, because I will never leave your heart." She then walked away...turned and gave a wave, and was gone. I found out the next day that she was cremated in her wedding dress. I wear my tiara proudly.....and love her always.
Judy Matheis 		Although I didn't get a chance to know Bonnie long, it only took that short amount of time to know how special she was. She radiated love. She had a sweet mystery behind her smile. When I began working here at Garven Inc, we became friends. She and I shared an office together and I couldn't have asked for a more fitting roommate. I still think of her with us at Garven watching us, laughing at our strange family of artists, a family that she will always be apart of. I can only thank God, for allowing me to be in Bonnie's life and her to be in mine. Some of the shortest relationships leave you with something very special. And Bonnie Glander will always be in my heart. Miss you sweetie.
Jessica Wahlberg

 

I remember the first time I met Bonnie. I was a Jaycee and when I was done for the night and I walked from The Foaming Stein and walked right into her bumping the squeaker. I said I was sorry with a look like what was that noise. She laughed and said no problem and from then on she would say hi or come play whenever she saw me. I for one will never forget her. Well I think she will be the first to welcome us to the other side when our # is called.
Chris Nash, Bubbles of the Jousting track
Bonnie's aura put you immediately at ease. She radiated love and you felt it. I will always love her.
Mom Keller (Steve's Mom)

 

All I know is that she was very kind to me, and Steve was a barrel of laughs. Bonnie had a very positive effect on me in regards to fest and promos. She always made me feel welcome and gave me a sense of belonging. I miss her.
Tom Ashwell, Joshua Falcon

What I will remember most about Bonnie.....her joyous smile.....her infectious giggle.....the squeaker in her bodice......the wonderful way in which she talked about her friends....."oops - was that my outside voice?!".....the look in her eyes when she saw Stephen.....the night she got my husband to wear a tiara.....and the way she made me feel accepted when others wouldn't. Bonnie was the most beautiful and compassionate woman I have ever met! I am grateful to have known her and will greatly miss her.
Patty Ryan, HRM Elizabeta, Formerly the Queen of the Salisbury Faire

 

I met Bonnie in first aid after a grueling parade - heat exhaustion. Me in Puppet, her in just costume. We talked and instantly became festival friends. But my favorite memory of Bonnie was doing Hopkins Raspberry Festival parade and Torch light. She was the only one that was dressed more upper class. She became my queen to the King puppet.
Tom J. Keenan, Body Puppets & Sebastion and Barnabus the Frog Prince
Bonnie and I grew closer as friends over the last 6 or 7 months. Her smile was very contagious and her laughter even more so. Always willing to help and give a hand. I have no other words to share other than she will be missed.
Anj Kozel
Bonnie and Stephen picture copyrighted by Kae Caston I remember the love that shown in Bonnie's eyes when she and Stephen gazed at each other. I remember the beauty that cascaded from her soul to everyone lucky enough to see it. I'll especially remember that she seemed to genuinely enjoy my twisted (and often inane) sense of humor (sorry about the mechanical, talking mouse Stephen). She had a wonderful way to shut me up when I was rambling ... I will miss that squeaker! :-)
Chris Carter, The sometime King of the Salisbury Faire

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